The Essence of the Problem
The father wanted to spend more time with his child, who, by court order, lived with her mother.
After the divorce, the parents agreed that their daughter would live with each of them on a rotational basis.
The constant moving and fear of mixing up the days became a source of great stress and anxiety for the girl. She wanted to please both parents and was afraid of disappointing them.
Goals of Mediation
- To help the parents realize the impact of their agreements on the child.
- To help the parents find a more flexible and comfortable schedule for the girl, taking her interests into account.
- To maintain the child's contact with both parents and establish a calmer pace of life for the child.
How the Mediation Took Place
- Meetings were held with the parents to understand their views on the conflict and their needs.
- The child was included in joint sessions to find a solution that would suit everyone.
Result
The parents saw how difficult it was for their daughter to live according to the schedule they had agreed upon after the divorce, which they considered "fair."
They realized that the child was trying very hard to keep everything under control because she wanted her mom and dad to love her.
The parents reviewed and changed the meeting schedule to reduce stress and create stability for the child.
Mediator: Tetiana Bilyk